Magical Ethics
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I practice Wicca and I work with Egyptian gods and goddesses for my magic. I deal ONLY with positive magic. I will not under any circumstances help you to curse or hex anyone. If someone is causing you problems, please let me know. There are positive magical ways in which such problems can be successfully dealt with that do not involve negative magic.
Before I perform any Enchantment for a client I always inform them that whatever energy is put OUT into the Universe will come BACK to you at least three times stronger than what was sent out. This is a Universal Law. You will see this discussed in any good book on Wicca and Magic Enchantments in general. This applies to you even if you hire someone else like myself to perform the Enchantment on your behalf. Plus, as the one casting the actual Enchantment, it applies to me as well, even if you and I have never met. So, please don't ask for hexes or curses because I simply will not do that and I do not condone that behavior in others, either.
I also inform all clients that magic is like electricity. It is energy that feeds off other other energy (the intent of the Enchantment & how well you follow my instructions on following through with prayers and/or meditations after the Enchantment is completed). It bounces around, most of the time quite unpredictably. The basic rule of thumb is that most magic can take up to 1 lunar cycle (approximately 28 days) to manifest results. Magic is energy that takes the path of least resistance toward your goal. This means that if there are many obstacles between you and your desire, then your desire will take longer to manifest. It's that simple. Sometimes Enchantments are repeated, but I do not suggest it unless the situation is really dire.
In the cases when clients have asked me to repeat a Enchantment that did not bring results within a lunar cycle, I limit clients to only ONE repetition. Why? Let's say you have a child, like I do. This kid asks you for candy, but it's an hour before dinner time. You say "no." The child, disappointed, goes on to something else. However, a mere 10 minutes later, your kid is back asking you for candy again. For the second time you say "No" and now you're getting a bit irritated. See where I'm going with this? Why risk upsetting the Gods regarding your request by repeatedly asking for the same thing over and over again?
Asking twice is okay, but asking more than that and you run the risk of angering the gods with Whom I work, and that would not be a good thing. Unfortunately, sometimes the gods deem something you are asking for is not for your highest good so in some rare cases, you get a "no" answer. However, I always ask that the goal be for my client's highest good, and if NOT, then to please bring other positive and needed blessings into the life of my client. So even if you may not get exactly what you are asking for, you may end up with something different, but in the end, much better than your original goal.
A Special Note on Love Magic
First of all, if you wish to make someone fall in love with you or make someone do something you want them to do, then I'm sorry, but this is not the site for you. Such magic can be done, and often is, but this is MANIPULATION. This kind of magic is BLACK because you are forcing someone to do something that is against their FREE WILL. I do not participate in such Enchantments, nor do I suggest you do, no matter how desperate you may be. There is always another way to achieve your goal.
For example, in love Enchantments, you may be crazy about someone, but he or she may not realize you exist or there may be some strain on the relationship, in whatever form it exists. Instead of focusing energy on MAKING that person love you, what I will do in such situations is work a love Enchantment that will surround YOU with more loving vibrations. This may or may not cause this particular person to become attracted to you. They will be attracted to you if they FREELY decide to do so, otherwise, my love Enchantments will attract someone else into your life. In any love Enchantment, the key to attracting REAL and TRUE love in your life is to ask the Universe to bring you the person who is for your highest good. I always stipulate this in all my love Enchantments. Most importantly, a person must first love themselves before others will truly love them in return.